I came across a great post and thought I'd share it with my readers here. This is a great post of how something you're looking for can be right in front of you.
"So here's my story I knew a friend of mine that I had known for a long time eventually over the years our friendship turned into sexual attraction and we even dated once but unfortunately at the time I was leaving for a work contract in Dubai/Milan.
It really stunk because I had an amazing time! After a year I had returned and he'd moved to Toronto as well from London and while we both were busy settling down again we dint really date and soon enough started seeing other people
I kept bumping into him at random places and we always had a good time but dint think that either of us were interested more than friends.. this was until I kept thinking of the good times in my dreams subconsciously over long periods of time and i have no idea why.
finally it hit me I was starting to have regrets and was getting frustrated, so one morning I decided to take charge of my life and i directly went to him and asked him why the hell dint he ever date me again ever since I returned.. and that's when i found out he thought I wasn't interested in him and was flattered that i even thought of him and that he had thoughts about me too.. ugh why are guys so clueless sometimes!
I just dint want to have regrets so I thought going out of the way and embarrassing myself for a day was a better deal than regretting it all my life
so yeah I'm soooo glad I asked him out, feels a great load of my chest, it doesn't mean I have a great potential new boyfriend or anything because we're probably going to take it one step at a time and see how it goes but it sure does feel great knowing if i never asked out I'd be missing a lot in my life!"
The opportunities you don't take are the one's you regret the most. More next time.
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